How Can I Tell if My Ex Really Wants Me Back? August 20, 2010
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Is your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seem more interested in going out and spending time with you than before? Do you you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, or otherwise get your attention? . Are you asking yourself “does my ex want to get back with me”?
Maybe it’s time to get that old fire burning again!
If your ex is sending signals, and you are receptive to them, it could be time to go for it.
There’s a good chance your ex is responding to your hard-to-get routine, but now is not the time to get rambunctious and jump into the fire, for she could very well think you are over reacting to an innocent display of friendship. If you push things too hard and fast, the other person may react with confusion or mistrust, since serious love affairs are based on emotional ties, and emotions are tricky things.
Whenever two people who love each other break up, the natural thing for both parties involved is to want to get back together . This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer, for the longer you were together, the more memories you share, and memories are powerful motivators.
Another powerful emotion is that of regret, and your ex is usually wondering if YOU really want to get back together, as well.
You must be aware, however, that sometimes he/she really is over you and is just trying to get your attention because there are no other hot prospects on the scene. You must be sure that you are not being misled by your intense desire to re-kindle the relationship, and that the other person is genuinely interested in doing that, otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a big letdown. If you make yourself vulnerable at this time by professing your undying love, you may be playing into a game called REVENGE!
This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering “does my ex really want to get back with me?”, when, in actuality, the answer could be not to your liking, so play it cool for awhile, all the time showing interest and affection, but do not commit yourself too early.
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Things I Can Do to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back August 20, 2010
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Are you one of the millions of men who are wondering: “What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back” following a breakup?
Most begin to worry and fret about everything that could have been done differently. They even begin to compose apology letters in their heads and strategize about the perfect gift or perfect speech that will help them to rekindle the flame.
But how is a guy to know what to do, when most of the time the real reasons for the breakup are hazy and unclear? Women have different emotional triggers than men, and often don’t understand, themselves, what brought on the outburst of discontent that led to the ending of the relationship.
So, unless you did something really rotten to her, and know exactly the root of the problem to begin with, you have about as much chance of discovering what caused the rift as you have of winning the lottery.
You need a strategy!
In order to answer the question “what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back” You have to distance yourself from the relationship for a while, and redirect your energy toward something positive and fun. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and pretend you never knew her for awhile.
DO NOT fall into the trap of depression, anxiety, guilt, feeling sorry for yourself, or the really big one, JEALOUSY! If you spend all your time worrying about who she is with and what she is doing, I guarantee things will overwhelm you and you will do something stupid that will end the relationship for good.
A few weeks or months apart will make both of you reconsider the causes of the breakup and help you both to make changes in your lives. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.
You will gradually come to appreciate the differences in the way you two approach life and love, and in how you perceive the subject of relationships. After a short time apart, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.
Is this relationship worth saving, and how will that be possible? The next thing to do is to reconnect to your own feelings about her and decide whether or not you really want to get back together .
This is not the time to fall to your knees and beg for forgiveness, however. There are too many emotional issues to be sorted out between you two to appear weak or maudlin now. But the strong, silent type usually only gets the girl in the movies, so you must be ready to express your feelings in a calm, rational way at the first opportunity.
You can only take playing things cool with your ex so far.
If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as badly as you are missing her, and it may be time to up the ante by making the first move. Women absolutely adore a man who can show sensitivity and admit they have been wrong [even if the man doesn’t agree that he WAS wrong], and a well-thought-out mea culpa may be just the thing to re-ignite the spark.
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, the bond between you should now become apparent.
Be careful not to over-think things. Remember, relationships are a matter of emotions, not cold,
hard analysis. If you play it cool, but are ready to communicate when she is, you should be fine.
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