How Can I Tell if My Ex Really Wants Me Back? August 20, 2010
Posted by teemike in making up, relationships.Tags: dating, magic of making up, making up, relationship
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Is your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seem more interested in going out and spending time with you than before? Do you you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, or otherwise get your attention? . Are you asking yourself “does my ex want to get back with me”?
Maybe it’s time to get that old fire burning again!
If your ex is sending signals, and you are receptive to them, it could be time to go for it.
There’s a good chance your ex is responding to your hard-to-get routine, but now is not the time to get rambunctious and jump into the fire, for she could very well think you are over reacting to an innocent display of friendship. If you push things too hard and fast, the other person may react with confusion or mistrust, since serious love affairs are based on emotional ties, and emotions are tricky things.
Whenever two people who love each other break up, the natural thing for both parties involved is to want to get back together . This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer, for the longer you were together, the more memories you share, and memories are powerful motivators.
Another powerful emotion is that of regret, and your ex is usually wondering if YOU really want to get back together, as well.
You must be aware, however, that sometimes he/she really is over you and is just trying to get your attention because there are no other hot prospects on the scene. You must be sure that you are not being misled by your intense desire to re-kindle the relationship, and that the other person is genuinely interested in doing that, otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a big letdown. If you make yourself vulnerable at this time by professing your undying love, you may be playing into a game called REVENGE!
This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering “does my ex really want to get back with me?”, when, in actuality, the answer could be not to your liking, so play it cool for awhile, all the time showing interest and affection, but do not commit yourself too early.
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